victim mentality

 

Being a victim

In every situation we face or encounter in our life, we have the power to change, participate or being a victim of it. We hold all sides of the story we make, the moment you feel like a victim in the situation you are facing, you  have lost some of the ability to analyse the situation. Let me break this down.

Having the victim mindset will broke you from alot of things going on around you, it hides your own powers of having a different perspective. we are here to learn something, our everyday life is the lesson we need to figure out without having the power to control all whats going on. sometimes we dont need to win in every situation, even losing  its oky, it open up something in our ownself  to work on for the next life encounter. 

Having to learn that there is alot of ways one can do things is the key to understand how to break through a victim mindset, we see things differetly, we do things different and so is the thinking? having the mindset of knowing that everyone is capable of doing something to trigger or shift your mood is within the human abilities.' So having to know all this gives you the power how you can respond to the situation, ( are you adding on fuel to the fire or you can quench the fire within yourself?).

Bruce Lee once said, be like water. In every situation you are in learning the art of being like water is the best way you can, use every moment to your advantage, be flexible to ride with every wave without having the power to change its direction instead follow its flow, take every shape life pushes you to just like water and master the art of not controlling. 

Life will push you to situations you cant even  understand  just to test you how much lessons  you have learnt, the great powers in you how you will respond to it. You can only change something something about yourself, your health, your bad habbits, your well being and your better self.There are things you cant change, things like tomorrows weather, what will happen tomorrow and when will you die, those are not your worries. Change something within yourself thats your real challenge.